A key to a successful relationship is working together to solve problems. When problems occur, I’ve found that it is better to speak with one voice. Hal and I talk all the time; we never stop communicating. We can finish each other’s sentences with no trouble.
We decide beforehand who speaks when we face the world. We show a united semblance and never question each other in public. We’ve learned this garners respect and stops people from trying to intimidate us.
Make sure you and your spouse/partner/significant other always present a united front to the world and speak with one voice.